My first day of work in...
I don't even know how long. Being overseas with Marshall is one of the greatest blessings to me. I get to spend everyday with the main man in my life. With it is also a cost. As a lot of you overseas spouses know, you kind of lose your sense of identity a little bit. You no longer have your job, your car, your belongings, your friends, family, hang outs, comfort zones.... everything pretty much stays put in the U.S.
For me, I would give up anything to be with him and for him to not be deployed. That's ridiculously scary territory and knowing what his job is... I'd prefer to keep him close to me. So you adjust. You make do. You try to fit in and adapt... make new friends and try to read foreign food labels so you can cook dinner. Don't get me wrong, we are extremely lucky to be able to experience other cultures and live in beautiful places. Its amazing and I am definitely grateful for that aspect.
But you still have your day to days. Where you have to make yourself do something productive instead of just laying around watching Desperate Housewives online. You really don't have that good friend to call and go to the mall with and to lunch. And for me, its borderline impossible to get a job because of the work permit allowances in Malta. As far as embassy jobs, a family member always out ranks me, so I'm dropped there as well.
Thank goodness for my friend Heather who works for an event planning company and posted about needing part time help. I went in for an interview and was accepted into their team. It's an awesome company that hosts a wide variety of events for companies and businesses traveling to Malta. Today I got called to work! WOOO HOOOO!! Not working in a few years definitely hinders your normal purchases and its been a huge sacrifice for me. But I'm so glad to be doing something here and there.
What we did today was hold a team building exercise down on the beach for a Swedish Company. There were about 130 people (99% men), but very diverse nationalities. We gave each team (13 total) 3 decent size pieces of cardboard, a bunch of plastic, two wooden oars, and tape... and they had to make a boat out of that. Each team then had to have 1-2 people go in the boat and around a buoy and then back. We gave them points on how fast they were, originality, and team logo design. It was funny watching them try to figure out what to do. It also was super windy and freezing out, so I give a lot of credit to those who got in the water.
(this is just a random picture I found online... I didnt take any today)
My job? I had to help the rest of the team set everything up, help with questions during the event, and then tear down at the end and clean up. It was soooo great to be around people and be social. I loved it. Not a bad day in the office at all. I hope they call me again for more events. I know winter is pretty slow, but hearing about all the fun stuff they do in the summer has me excited :) Its great to feel like a person again! Or to have purpose :)
I'm also trying to get involved in the refugee camp here. They are super picky about who they allow to volunteer which is weird to me, but I'm trying to get in. I'd love to volunteer at least once a week and I know Marshall wants to go as well. So I think that will help to.
I hope you are having a great start to your week!! Sending big hugs to all my friends overseas who might need one today!!! xoxo